About The Song
“Then and Only Then” was written by Bill Anderson and recorded by Connie Smith on November 18, 1964, at RCA Studio B in Nashville. Produced by Bob Ferguson, the track appeared on her self-titled debut album and was released as a single in January 1965. It served as the follow-up to her breakthrough hit “Once a Day” and became her second major success on the country charts.
The single reached number four on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart. Its B-side, “Tiny Blue Transistor Radio,” also charted, peaking at number 25 on the same list. “Then and Only Then” further appeared on the Bubbling Under Hot 100, reaching number 116. The parent album *Connie Smith* itself topped the Billboard Top Country Albums chart.
Anderson had already played a key role in Smith’s early career by helping her secure a recording contract after hearing her perform. He wrote several of her early hits, including “Once a Day.” “Then and Only Then” continued that collaboration. The lyric describes a woman whose partner has temporarily left with a promise to return. She sits alone counting the hours and states that she will only be happy when his arms are around her again—then and only then.
The recording features the polished Nashville Sound production typical of Ferguson’s sessions at Studio B, with clear support from skilled session musicians. Smith’s distinctive vocal delivery remains the central focus, conveying the quiet longing of the song without excess ornamentation. The arrangement stays consistent with the style that had already proven successful with her debut single.
By early 1965 Smith was firmly established as a rising force in country music. The strong performance of “Then and Only Then” helped maintain the momentum that began with “Once a Day” and set the stage for a string of top-ten singles that continued through the mid-to-late 1960s. Her early releases demonstrated both commercial reliability and a clear artistic identity.
Within Smith’s catalogue of 1960s recordings, “Then and Only Then” stands as an important early hit that confirmed the staying power of her debut success. It reinforced her connection with Anderson’s songwriting and contributed to the solid foundation of her career during a highly productive period.
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Lyric
In your haste you left and said you’d be returning
In my sorrow I forgot to ask you when
In my lonely room I sit and count the hours
Every minute hoping I’ll look up and you’ll come walking in
For then and only then will I stop crying
And this aching, breaking heart of mine will mend
Not until I feel your arms around me
Will I be happy and I live for then and only then
All that’s left inside my heart is just your echo
And the tiny thread of hope to which I cling
But if I keep holding on maybe someday
You’ll remember where you left me and come back for me again
For then and only then will I stop crying
And this aching, breaking heart of mine will mend
Not until I feel your arms around me
Will I be happy and I live for then and only then
And I live for then and only then